Sometimes, life throws unexpected surprises our way. And in my case, it happened during a seemingly perfect first date with a guy named Alex.

Being a workaholic, I had been single for a long time until a friend introduced me to Alex. He seemed like a dream come true – good-looking, intelligent, and funny. He worked as an architect, which added to his appeal. So, naturally, I was excited about our dinner date at his favorite chain restaurant.

Little did I know that this dinner would take an unexpected turn.

When the bill arrived, I was more than willing to contribute my share of $200. However, Alex insisted on treating me. At first, I thought it was a kind gesture, but then he made an outrageous suggestion. He asked me to use the money I was going to contribute for breast surgery.

I was taken aback by his audacity. Gathering my thoughts, I responded by calling out the absurdity of his remark. I even suggested that he could use some “brain-increasing” treatment himself. Without second thoughts, I left $200 on the table and walked out.

Later, I discovered that Alex had been banned from the entire restaurant network due to his relationship with the waiter. His feeble attempts to defend his offensive comment and his desperate plea for me to stay only revealed his callous nature.

This experience taught me an important lesson – never tolerate disrespect. It reminded me of the significance of treating people with respect and holding others accountable for their improper behavior.

Although this encounter left a sour taste in my mouth, I refuse to let it define my dating experience. I know that not all men are like Alex. Despite this setback, I remain open to new relationships, knowing that there are good people out there.

So, women (and men) out there, don’t be discouraged by one bad date. Stand up for yourself, confront disrespect, and remember that you deserve someone who treats you with the respect you deserve.