A 28-year-old man found himself torn between his wife and his 11-year-old orphaned sister after his father’s death. Seeking advice on Reddit, he hoped to find a peaceful resolution to this difficult situation.

The man and his wife had been married for two years and had planned to live a childless life. However, when the man’s sister expressed her desire to live with them after their father passed away, it created a conflict.

The original Reddit post, titled “I want to adopt my sister after my dad’s death, my wife refused because we agreed on no children. Is there a way to fix this?”, has since been removed due to reaching its “karma limit.” In the post, the man explained that the age gap between him and his sister made him more like a father figure to her. He mentioned that they had two options for her care: either he takes her in or their uncle (their father’s brother). When they asked the little girl, she chose to live with her brother.

However, his wife was against adopting his sister, especially since their uncle was willing to step in and take responsibility for raising her. This disagreement caused tension in their marriage, and the man even threatened divorce if his wife didn’t accept his decision.

The post received a range of responses from Reddit users, with many sympathizing with the man and criticizing his wife for being selfish. Some highlighted the distinction between choosing not to have children and not supporting a relative in need during a time of crisis.

Ultimately, the man decided to prioritize his sister’s wellbeing and separate from his wife. He became a single “father-ish” figure to his sister and expressed his enjoyment in this new role.

This story raises challenging questions about family dynamics, personal choices, and the importance of supporting loved ones during difficult times. It invites readers to reflect on what they would do in a similar situation and share their thoughts in the comments.