Love knows no bounds, and this is certainly true for the iconic superstar Bette Midler and her husband, Martin von Haselberg. Can you imagine getting married after only six weeks of dating? Well, that’s exactly what this power couple did, and their love has stood the test of time for 39 incredible years.
In 1984, Bette Midler, already a Grammy, Golden Globe, and Tony award-winning artist, met Martin von Haselberg, an Argentinian gentleman. Their connection was immediate and undeniable. After a whirlwind courtship of just six weeks, Bette, at the age of 39, took the bold step of proposing to Martin. And true to their spontaneous nature, they eloped to Las Vegas.
Their wedding was a uniquely charming affair. The Starlight Chapel in Las Vegas became the backdrop for their vows, with none other than Elvis Presley impersonator officiating the ceremony. It was just Bette, Martin, and the Elvis impersonator as witnesses to their union. And as Bette recounts, her husband had to change his suit at the last minute, ensuring they had a perfect wedding day.
This impromptu decision to elope turned out to be a remarkable one. Just two years later, the couple welcomed their daughter, Sophie, who has carved her own path as an actor. Sophie, now 36, has made her mark in the film industry, appearing in Woody Allen’s 2015 film, “Irrational Man.”
But like any long-lasting relationship, Bette and Martin’s marriage hasn’t been without its challenges. As they approach their 40th wedding anniversary, they openly share that they had their fair share of fights and disagreements. However, their commitment to their daughter and their determination to be the best parents kept them together.
“We used to fight bitterly,” Bette admits. “But we came to the conclusion that we wanted to raise a child. We never wanted to hurt that kid in any way. So we stayed together until it got better, and it did.”
Martin emphasizes the importance of putting family first and making conscious efforts to create the life they have. Leaving his job as a commodities trader, he supported Bette’s career and played an instrumental role in raising Sophie. Bette lovingly describes him as the “greatest father” and acknowledges his sacrifices.
Through the years, Bette has also learned important lessons in compromise and accountability. She recognizes the value of listening, compromise, and taking responsibility for her own actions.
In 2020, Bette and Martin proudly walked their daughter down the aisle at her wedding. The intimate ceremony, due to the pandemic, had only 11 guests, but it was filled with love and joy. And no, Elvis did not make an appearance this time.
We can’t help but admire Bette Midler and Martin von Haselberg for their enduring love and commitment. In an industry where relationships often falter, their story is a refreshing reminder that love can conquer all. So, here’s to Bette, Martin, and their amazing journey together. May their love continue to shine for many years to come.
If you enjoyed reading about Bette Midler and Martin von Haselberg’s 39-year marriage, you’ll be thrilled to hear about their incredible daughter, Sophie. Stay tuned for more heartwarming stories.
